Understanding The Uninitiated Male/Man Child
This article is written after observation of the state of crisis in the modern world. As currently we are living in a huge shift of cosmic consciousness and reset. I write this with the intention it finds the correct souls.
Many years ago as a young teenager, I was watching a video of a man named Elliot Hulse, where he said the lines. “Young boys love their mommy, grown men hurt their mothers.”
Being a young teen I was very confused in what he said. “Most men today are shells of themselves; they marry the first woman they can. They move 15 minutes away from home and get a nice cushy job.”
Today I understand exactly what Elliot was saying. Whether you are a woman and a mother or a man going through the world.
This is what makes or breaks a man.
His ability to stand in his truth and mission, regardless of whom he may offend or hurt. In the process of this he is likely to unintentionally hurt those around him, especially his mother
He that riseth high cast a shadow equally as high, and that shadow is the forces of the world aiming to tear him down.
However in todays world most men have been beaten down, brainwashed, or never initiated to know a potential of their real strength.
They stay in the world of comfort, the trodden path of society, the world of the mother.
Mother always wants boy to be safe, to be protected and fears for him. Where as fathers know best.
However regardless of what father knows, Mother will always have that deep instinct inside of her.
For a man to rise he must be spiritually initiated. Stripped away from the world of MAMA. The illusion and love for comfort, and to embrace the war of life.
This is the ceremonious cutting of the psychic chord away from the world of protection and into the initiation of elevated masculinity.
A male must leave the world of comfort and enter the jungle on his own to meet his real self.
I myself have found that much of what held me back in life, was not myself. Yet the fear of hurting one of the women I know who loved me deeply, my mother. Programmed in me as a Asian-American was the fear of reputation, face, shame amongst my family.
So deep is the fear of hurting the mother engrained in a son, that he may center his life around keeping her happy and pleased, leading to the worship of woman, pussy and sex. Unconsciously this energy is what sabotages his own potential.
This is the complex known as the devouring mother, where the mother unknowingly places the son in a cage of safe comfort.
Never allowing the son to rise to his full potential, and the world will glamorize this.
Men that are stuck in this dynamic find themselves battling the harassment and love of their mother. Draining their sexual energy, creative energy and confidence. Often times they are fat, shy, timid, addicted to porn, video games and quasi-married to MAMA!
Because today a rite of passage does not exist, a man must make his own decision to initiate himself, where he will start the journey on his own. Or forever remain an adolescent in mind.
BUT BUT BUT.
Always listen to parents, always love mom nobodies love is like a mothers etc etc. YES that is right! But this same world that glamorizes this will yell and cry when the men of today are no longer initiated.
They will cry of weak men, soft boys, no leaders, demonize and use them, yet simultaneously encourage behaviors to create them
A man who bows to his mother's wishes is celebrated in the world as a good boy! The world has gaslit a man into thinking his mother is his GOD
A man will become successful, by his mom a house and say i love you mama! That is not a sons job. That is HIS MOTHERS HUSBANDS JOB!
Do it if you like, but it is not a sons obligation to become the PROVIDER of his MOM!
In the bible it states to HONOR THY MOTHER AND FATHER. For as our parents act as a lord in our life.
However there is a time where a man grows and keeps his respect for mother/father, yet remembers that his REAL FATHER is the divine creator.
The uninitiated male, regardless of his age, bows to his parents as they are his CREATOR.
OR EVEN WORSE. HE challenges their authority and resents them. Sometimes leading to harming them.
This severs his real connection to the divine. Because he was never able to launch into the wild on his own. Now I am not telling you to disrespect your parents, but what I am saying as you can see in many of the ascended masters paths is that. At a certain state parents are your vessels that brought you into this world, and you always respect them
However, they are not your ultimate authority in life as time goes on. Yes this will ruffle many feathers.
But the #1 challenge of a man to rise into his true phase of initiation is to stand in his TRUTH, even if his voice shakes and he is wrought with guilt and shame from his past life.
HE follows THE DIVINE. Creator almighty the ALL. And when doing this there may be times where he must sacrifice and hurt those around him.
Many men today have forgotten that their natural state of mind is to be that of a conqueror. To rule, to lead and to impact the earth.
The man has forgotten that he is an indominable being of HONOR AND WAR!
THIS IS what separates the initiated male and uninitiated MEN.
The uninitiated man exist in a state of could, would, should, maybe, and coast by in life. FEELING A SENSE OF EMPTINESS AND DULLNESS while convincing himself that EVERYTHING IS OK.
He convinces himself that if he tried, he could get an outcome, intellectualizes everything in his brain.
HE STAYS in the world of his intellect because that is the world of COMFORT. The world of THE MOTHER.
He knows things through his mind.
But does not experience life through his body and soul.
Life passes him by, while he waits for the perfect moment.
The perfect woman, for he finds flaw in any that shows interest in him.
The perfect career, because yeah, he can do it, but ITS NOT REALLY WHAT HE WANTS.
He sits back intellectualizing his understanding of life to feel superior to those that try, fail and are responsible.
He believes he knows the outcome before things happen, so he never takes a RISK and exposes himself to the WORLD.
HE FEARS TRYING BECAUSE HE HAS THE POTENTIAL TO FAIL. FEEL DISCOMFORT. GET HURT. AND HIS WEAKNESS WITHIN.
The initiated & SUPERIOR male is willing to stand in the fire and sacrifice EVERYTHING to stand and rise IN LOVE.
Just as the creator is PURE LOVE AS WILL HE BE.
He embodies the timeless essence of MASCULINE POWER. THAT OF A SPIRITUAL BOSS & KING.
COURAGE. VALOR. HONOR. TO SERVE. TO LEAD. TO DIE FOR THE GREATER GOOD.
TO RISE TO THE OCCASION AND TO PUSH EVERYTHING IN HIS SOUL TO THE LIMIT.
EXPOSE HIS VULNERABILITIES TO THE FIRES OF LIFE!
Although he may fall, nothing stands in the way of his core mission in life.
The Spiritually Initiated mans Reality: "A prophet is not without honor except in his own town, among his relatives and in his own home." (Mark 6:4).
As Christ had to leave his past life and earthly family, he went off into the world and began his mission
As Buddha left his family and earthly possessions behind he begun his mission to seek enlightenment.
Men of higher calling fully understand the path that is before them, and are willing to become the BOSS of their own life and impact the world in such a way
The uninitiated men is unconsciously held back by his fear of hurting others, wanting to play it safe and being “GOOD.” Who taught him what “good & BAD” was?
It is likely his surroundings. These very surroundings that cultivated him to a peaceful man is what kept the fire in him just bright enough to survive.
In the modern uninitiated male, you can see many things about him, everything will be just good enough.
A good family, a good wife, a good circle. Good style, he is the classic citizen of this world.
His voice his mannerisms will be good. This is not me identifying and ridiculing him, he is what he is.
I write this because over a decade ago I set out on a journey to find the answers of the modern world. Why was I so depressed, why was I so unhappy. Why did life never seem right. There was a constant emptiness in my heart.
A decade later I find myself happier than ever in my day-to-day actions, yet part of me feels a deep sorrow.
For humanity in the modern world has lost touch with their true self, men have forgot they had a sword of truth, and have never thought to pick it up and fight away the evil in front of them.
They simply accept what they are forced to take and live a life of common mediocrity.
THAT IS NOT THE men I wish to see at SPIRITUALBOSSGLOBAL.
If a man has not yet initiated himself into the world, then this domain is developed to further encourage that.
As a Shaman I function as a spiritual guide to many people in my family and community, and I invite any man who wishes to experience an upper echelon of life to do the same.
This website was made to help unleash the inner lion. To assist in purifying the weak parts of one's character and turn them into their highest version.
A developed man is the LION who left his pride and went into the world to create his own.
Such a lion is completely different than the one in the zoo, or that never left the pack. He is a different animal than his domesticated counterparts.
In the human man this manifest as :